Showing posts with label mixed marriage. Show all posts
Showing posts with label mixed marriage. Show all posts

Tuesday, August 29, 2017

DVD: A United Kingdom

A United Kingdom is a film about the forbidden love and marriage between a black man, Seretse Khama and a white woman, Ruth Williams. Their relationship is complicated by the fact that Seretse is heir to the kingship of Bechuanaland, a British protectorate in Africa.The film covers the period from 1947 to the late 1950's. Britain was broke after World War II, struggling to keep control of its vast number of "colonies" in Africa and elsewhere and the Cold War was just beginning.

The Bechuanaland Protectorate was established in 1885 by the United Kingdom to protect the area inhabited by the Tswana people from possible incursion by South Africans. The British intended to turn over administration of this area to either Rhodesia or South African but opposition to this by the Tswana people resulted in it remaining under British control until independence in 1966.

Seretse's grandfather, King Khama ruled Bechuanaland from 1975 until his death in 1923. Khama was an intelligent ruler who sought to protect his people's land. Bechuanaland was granted protection by Queen Victoria after King Khama visited Britain to obtain British help. Bechuanaland was threatened with incorporation into Cecil Rhodes' British South Africa Company. This would mean that Bechuanaland would be controlled by Rhodes, an avid supporter of colonization and who believed the blacks of Africa were a lesser race.

Khama's eldest son, Sekgoma II became the tribal chief in 1923 but only ruled for a year before he too died. The leadership of the tribe passed on to his infant son, Seretse, whose uncle Tshekedi became regent and who raised him. The movie picks up the story with Seretse, now a young man, studying in London. His life is filled with boxing at a club and attending jazz clubs where he dances.

Meanwhile Ruth Williams who has just broken up with her boyfriend is encouraged by her sister, Muriel to accompany her to the Missionary Society dance. At the dance Ruth overhears Seretse with friends discussing his views on imperialism and Africa. Seretse also notices Ruth and they eventually meet and dance. Muriel later informs Ruth that Seretse is from Bechuanaland and is studying law. This intrigues Ruth who looks up the country in an atlas.

The next day a parcel containing a jazz record arrives for Ruth from Seretse who also invites her to a dance. She accepts, they have a good time and learn more about each other. Seretse tells her that his country is one of the poorest in Africa and that they are under the special protection of Britain. At the end of the night, Ruth doesn't allow Seretse to accompany her all the way to her home because her father will not approve. At this point Seretse reveals to Ruth his heritage; that he is to be the future king of Bechuanaland and now that his studies are completed he must return home. Despite this Ruth and Seretse continue to see one another. Eventually Seretse asks Ruth to marry him and she immediately accepts.

Little do Seretse and Ruth realize the implications and the political fallout their marriage will create. Both Seretse's friends and Ruth's family are shocked. Seretse is advised to write his uncle which is he does, while Ruth tells her family and is told by her father that if she marries him, he will never see her again. This greatly upsets Seretse who offers her a chance to change her mind but Ruth is determined.

Unknown to Ruth and Seretse, his Uncle Tshekedi has unleashed a chain of events that leads to a visit by Sir Alistair Canning to Ruth's workplace. Sir Canning, who is the British government's representative in Southern Africa, tells Ruth that "Mr. Khama" is mistaken about marrying who he chooses and that their marriage will have serious repercussions for Bechuanaland's neighbors, particularly South Africa who is putting into practice apartheid.  Ruth doesn't know that apartheid means that "the black must lives separately from the white" but she refuses to back down. Even when she's told that the presidents of South Africa, South Africa West and Rhodesia are demanding that the marriage not take place.

Seretse learns from Sir Canning that it is his uncle who is behind the attempts to prevent his marriage. So Seretse and Ruth marry in a civil ceremony with a few friends and Ruth's sister present. Their marriage makes international news. Seretse and Ruth travel to Bechuanaland where Seretse plans to confront his uncle. What they don't know is that the battle to live their lives as they wish and for the future of Bechuanaland is just beginning.

Discussion

A United Kingdom, directed by Amma Asante, is a beautifully crafted film with stellar performances by David Oyelowo (Seretse) and Rosamund Pike (Ruth). A strong supporting cast of Jack Davenport (Sir Alistair Canning), Laura Carmichael ( Muriel) and Tom Felton (Rufus Lancaster) round out the film. A United Kingdom is based on the book, Colour Bar by Susan Williams which chronicles the love affair and marriage of two people determined to overcome the social conventions and racial prejudices of the post-war world. It was a time when the sun was setting on British colonialism but also when racial intolerance was about to enshrined in law with the enactment of apartheid in South Africa.

The film captures all the difficulties that Seretse and Ruth encountered; from opposition by their families,  interference by British politicians and Seretse's own uncle, racial abuse in the streets, to Seretse's banishment from Bechuanaland and attempts to wrest the kingship of his country from him. Ruth's father admonishes her for "choosing a life of insults and shame" and refuses to see her again after the marriage (although he does eventually reconcile with her), while Seretse's family see Ruth,as a white person synonymous with intolerance and racial prejudice. His family urge him to divorce her which Seretse courageously refuses to do. This sets up a dramatic conflict between Seretse and his beloved Uncle Tshekedi.  It is Seretse who urges his people to work for tolerance and equality, to rid themselves of the apartheid instituted in their own country with white only entrances and other discriminatory policies such as no alcohol served to blacks.

A United Kingdom explores the reasons why Britain, South Africa, and other African countries were against the marriage of a black man to a white woman. The South African government under Prime Minister Malan was in the process of enacting apartheid which called for the total separation of the white and black races. Seretse and Ruth's marriage was in direct opposition to the idea of apartheid.  Although there was support for Seretse from the British public and from some British politicians, the fact was that the United Kingdom could not afford to alienate South Africa which was threatening to leave. The British government was broke after World War II and desperately needed South Africa's gold. It also needed the country's uranium for its own nuclear arsenal as the Cold War between the Soviet Union and the West was beginning to ramp up. These political reasons resulted in Britain acting in a shameful way, stripping the people of Bechuanaland of their rightful king.

The British colonial attitude which viewed the black people of Africa as inferior and in need of governing, is superbly portrayed by many characters including Jack Davenport's character, Sir Alistair Canning who tells Seretse after announcing his five year exile, that a tribal council will be set up so people "will have some sort of say in our running of your affairs."


Ruth and Seretse in real life with two of their children.

A United Kingdom is a must-see film for those interested in history, civil rights and the post-war period. Asante manages to balance the struggles of Ruth and Seretse with his portrayal of the beauty of Africa and its people, who value family and tradition and who want the right to govern themselves.


Wednesday, May 4, 2011

Karma by Cathy Ostlere

"Racism isn't always hatred. Sometimes it's just confusion fear. It's their own hearts they're not sure about."

The novel opens on October 28, 1984 as fifteen-year-old Jiva and her father Amar (Bapu) Singh fly to India with the ashes of her mother, Leela.

On the plane writing in her journal, Jiva recalls how her parents met years ago  at a wedding in India. For Leela, a Brahman Hindu and Amar, a Sikh, marriage was forbidden. Leela wasn't allowed to leave the house for two months unaccompanied, while her Amar's mother didn't speak to him for six weeks.  Amar's father lectured him about how marrying a Brahman girl would destroy him spiritually and that he would be tied to the "Wheel of Existences".  

However neither Leela nor Amar would relent, believing that their families were offering opposition to their marriage to save face. And so three months later they wed. Their Hindu and Sikh families celebrated and accepted the union since the couple were emigrating to Canada. But while Amar's father advised him to insist Leela become Sikh, Leela's family disowned her.

Jiva's parents settled in Elsinore, Manitoba, a small town of "one thousand, four hundred, and seventy-two Christian-like souls" and three pagans: Jiva and her parents.  Her family rented an old farmhouse near the cemetery and her father worked as a mechanic, running Jack's Mechanic Shop, renting to own. Jiva was born on July 20, 1969, the exact moment that man walked on the moon. However, Leela and Amar disagreed over a name for their daughter: Leela wanted to name her Neil after the astronaut, but Amar insisted on Jiva. This name upset Leela who does not want her daughter to be named after Amar's father. Leela decided she will call her Maya, but this angered Amar who now feels he should have insisted she become Sikh or never married her.

Jiva means "soul" in Sanskrit while Maya means "illusion" or "change" also in Sanskrit. When Jiva was a young girl, her mother whom she calls Mata began to teach her the Hindu faith. However, this angers her father  Amar, whom Jiva calls Bapu. These arguments confused and frightened Jiva. 

On October 29-30, 1984, Jiva and her father arrive in New Delhi, a crowded, noisy, smelly city. Jiva is overwhelmed by the sights and sounds: a one-armed woman beggar, a shrivelled rickshaw driver, a boy selling chai tea. Her father ignores the beggars and tells Jiva to ignore them because they can't help them. In India, Bapu takes Jiva shopping because she has packed only t-shirts and jeans, having tore up all her saris after Mata died. Jiva remembers what it was like back in Elsinore: her mother wore a sari rather than pants and she remembers Mata shopping at Reena's Sari shop in Winnipeg. 

Jiva remembers how life is Elsinore was very difficult for her mother. After nine years in Elsinore, Leela finds the people unfriendly as no one will talk to her. Amar is not empathetic, telling her to wear Canadian clothes which Leela finds ugly, or just stay inside. Leela begs Amar to take her back to India but he refuses, telling her there is no money to do so. Jiva's parents' relationship begins to unravel as their different values and perspective on life begin to show in daily life.

Eventually Bapu promised they would visit India when Jiva is sixteen. But as they watched events from Elsinore, Manitoba, India fell into turmoil: Punjab became a place of "turmoil and violence"...with "Sikhs demanding a homeland called Khalistan." Bapu believed that Prime Minister Indira Ghandi would never allow Punjab to separate because it borders Pakistan and Mata began to realize that her dream of visiting India was vanishing. "How will we go home now, Amar?  Sikhs and Hindus being driven apart? Where does that leave us?"

In their hotel room in Delhi, on October 31 to November 1 1984, Bapu returns frantic, telling Jiva that there are mobs of Hindu men raging through the streets hurting Sikh men, women and children.  On Halloween, Indira Ghandi, prime minister of India has been shot thirty-two times, assassinated by her two Sikh guards. Terrified that because he is a Sikh he will be murdered, Bapu removes his turban, cuts his hair, trims his beard, and tells Jiva to wait in the hotel room while he goes to his friend Kiran Sharma who lives in the Mangolpuri District to help them leave Delhi. But before he leaves, Bapu reveals to Jiva that he brought her to India to marry her to an Indian man, as Mata requested.  Jiva is horrified and while she waits she remembers how she found Mata hanging from a ceiling fan in their house. She also remembers how her friend Helen, wearing a sari she lent her, betrays her with Michael, the boy she likes.

Jiva is brought back to the present when the hotel is set on fire and the Sikh men are forced out into the street so they can be murdered. Jiva strips off her sari, dresses in her t-shhirt and jeans, cuts off her braid, and realizing she cannot go out the front door, flees out a kitchen window at the back of the hotel. She manages to exchange their train tickets for a train to Jodhpur. On the train Jiva witnesses an unspeakable attack on a Sikh man whom she tries to save but who is burned alive. At the train station in Jodhpur, Jiva collapses and is taken to a hospital where Dr. Parvati Patel treats her. In shock and deeply traumatized, Jiva remains silent, telling Dr. Patel nothing other than the name her mother wanted for her, Maya.

At this point in the novel, the narrative switches to a new character, seventeen-year-old Sandeep on November 13, 1994. Sandeep is the brother of Parvati, the doctor treating Jiva. Sandeep is adopted, an orphan whose parents are dead and who was found under a goat in the desert. Parvati has Sandeep keep a diary to chronicle his efforts to help the mute girl who was dropped off at the Widows Home in Jodhpur. Parvati believes she is a foreigner who fled the rioting and that Sandeep can help. At the insistence of Parvati, her parents, Amma and Barindra take in Maya (Jiva) in the hopes that they can help her heal. However, at the Patel home, Maya remains mute and seems to slip deeper into distress. Their neighbours are convinced she is either a witch or a prostitute. 

As the villagers begin to harrass and threaten the Patel family, Amma insists that Barindra take Maya away. Barindra makes a deal with his friend, Farooq to take Maya to his village of Alamar where she will likely end up married to one of his grandsons. Maya continues to remain mute but it is her journey through the desert that forces her to make the decision to live...and to do that she must speak. 

Discussion

Karma is a historical fiction novel that explores the immigrant experience in Canada, against the backdrop of the volatile events in India of 1984. It covers the time period from October 28 to December 17, 1984.

Following India's independence from colonial rule by Britain in 1947, the Punjab region in northern India began to agitate for a separate Punjabi-speaking state. In 1966, the Punjab stat was divided on the basis of language into the mainly Punjabi-speaking state of Punjab and the mainly Hindi-speaking state of Haryana. The majority of people in Punjab state adhere to Sikhism, a religion that believes everyone is equal before God. Sikhs believe in reincarnation, and that only through perfect devotion to God (through good works and living well) they can break the cycle of rebirth. In Hinduism, the dominant religion in Harvana, it is believed the soul is reborn repeatedly until perfection and there are many gods and goddesses.

Through the years following the creation of these two states and into the early 1980s, increasingly militant Sikh activism led to the demand of independent Sikh homeland called Khalistan. By 1981 there was ongoing violence between Sikh and Hindus, with the desecration of Hindu temples by Sikhs. As tensions continued to escalate in Punjab, Haryana, and Delhi through the early 1980s by 1984, Indian Prime Minister Indira Ghandi decided she had to act. The Indian military attacked the Sikh Golden Temple killing the Sikh extremist leader Jarnail Singh Bhindranwale. This ultimately led to the assassination of Indira Ghandi by her Sikh bodyguards on October 31, 1984. leading to violent rioting. Mobs attacked Sikhs in Delhi, killing thousands and injuring many thousands more. These events provide the setting for the novel.

Karma begins with the voice of Jiva who along with her father Bapu arrive in India with her mother Leela's ashes. Jiva is reflecting on the events that led up to her mother's suicide: her struggles as an immigrant in a country where her culture and beliefs are in sharp contrast to those of Christianity. This leads a lack of community, resulting in isolation and depression.  Jiva's parent also begin to experience  struggles in their marriage as they argue about a name for their daughter and what to teach Jiva/Maya to believe. Their struggles are a metaphor for the religious strife that is tearing apart their homeland of India. 

In the poem, "Mata is crying day and night", the struggles Jiva's mother Mata (Leela) experiences are brought into focus: missing the familiar landscape of home, the lack of connection and community. Leela asks Amar,
"Don't you miss your homeland, Amar? The broad plains? The fields of wheat? Our Punjab of the five rivers"" 
Amar tells her that in Canada she  has religious freedom whereas if they were to return to India his father's intolerance for Hinduism would force her to convert to Sikhism. But that is small comfort to Leela,
"But I have no one to pray with, but a daughter who won't dress Indian unless it's Halloween! I have religious freedom
but no community."
Amar tells her that hatred is as form of isolation and that in Canada there's "No blood in the soil to stain our lives. No families to tell us how to be."  This is a reference to the ongoing strife in India between Hindus and Sikhs, a foreshadowing of what Jiva and Bapu will experience themselves in the future.

Unfortunately, Jiva and Bapu arrive in India at the height of violence between Hindus and Sikhs. The overwhelming poverty in India is a shock to Jiva as is her father's indifference to it. In New Delhi, she is overwhelmed at the sight of the beggars and the street people. Her father's response is given in the poem, "Who Are You?"
"What would you have me do, Jiva?
Feed all the starving?
Buy them artificial limbs?
Buy their children?

No. Of course not, I shout back.
Just see them.
See their pain.
Acknowledge their suffering.

I am tired of pain, he says...

And besides, there's nothing we can do, Jiva. Perhaps they'll do better in their next life.
But I think he means they should have done better in their last.
Karma.

To Jiva, her father is blaming the poor and the beggars, essentially saying that they are beggars now in this life because they did something terrible in their previous life. His attitude puzzles Jiva because at home in Elsinore he notices everyone and is deferential, but in India, he is proud and confident.  However, as Jiva remembers the past, she remembers her father being unsympathetic towards the suffering of Mata who felt increasingly isolated and who begged to be taken back to India. 

As the violence escalates following the assassination of Indira Ghandi, Jiva learns that her father has taken her to India not just to bring Mata's ashes but also to force her into marriage. Left alone at their hotel, Jiva flees to escape the violence but on the train to Jodhpur witnesses unspeakable cruelty towards Sikhs as told in a poem titled "Mirage"

"They come across the yellow fields
running with dark faces and teeth bared
through ribbons of heated air
a mirage of false water.

The train slows as if waiting for them to catch up.

What's happening here?
Why are we stopping here?
Is it wolves?


But they are not wolves

(we should have prayed for wolves)
but men instead
four-limbed and angry
carrying iron rods and knives
hands gripping gasoline cans
voices shouting into the hot dry air
their fury stirring the dust like a wind.

(we should have prayed for wolves)..."

Jiva is accused by the passengers on the train of unlocking the train door. Jiva did not unlock the door and attempted to save a Sikh man who is taken and burned alive in a field. This trauma leads her to question her actions in the poem title "Guilt", as she questions whether she did enough.

"I know I'm not the one who unwrapped the turban, bound the legs, poured the gasoline, and struck the match
But I listened to the screams for mercy and was frozen
Could I have smothered the fire with my body?
Should I have died with him? Fire on my hands?
Is my silence unfounded too?"
Because she feels she didn't act, - a fifteen-year-old girl in a strange country- Jiva believes she doesn't deserve to be found by her father or loved. Her trauma leads Jiva unable to speak and tell the doctor who she is. 

At this point the novel seems to lose the storyline. Instead of the focus remaining on Jiva and her thoughts at this time, the story switches to a narrative by a new character, Sandeep Patel, adopted brother of Dr. Parvati Patel.  Jiva who has told the doctor her name is Maya, is taken in by Doctor Parvati Patel's family, although Dr. Patel never visits to see how Maya is doing. As Jiva is mute, the narration is taken over by Sandeep who is asked to keep a diary by his sister. This method to move the story forward feels awkward and not realistic as boys generally do not journal. Eventually, the Patel family's neighbours begin to harrass and threaten them about the presence of the strange girl in their home. However, they never reach out to their physician daughter for help in finding another family to take in Maya. Instead, Barindra and a stranger - Akbar take Maya on a journey across the Thar Desert. It is revealed that she will stay with Akbar's family and likely be forced to marry him. During the trip the connection between Sandeep and Akbar is revealed. When a desert storm threatens, Maya who has runaway from Sandeep, Akbar and Barhindra, must make the decision to live, and starts to speak again.

Four weeks after the riots, Jiva returns to Delhi with Sandeep to find her father. Jiva is still struggling to come to terms with the mob violence she has witnessed. She is shocked by the indifference and forgetfulness of the people in Delhi.
"The city is shrouded with amnesia.
A tattered veil of forgetfulness...

Yet four weeks later what is different? Fewer turbans? But who is noticing?
On the streets of New Delhi, who is concerned? Who even remembers?

I question the face of every man I walk by?
Was it you? Were you a part of this?
Did you take a man's life? His breath? His dreams?
Or did you stand by and do nothing?"

In the poem, "The shame", Jiva struggles to understand the Indian mindset towards what has happened,
"I don't understand, Sandeep.
Where is the shame for what happened on these streets?
Why is the city not on its knees?
The masses asking for forgiveness?
Crowding to temples with offerings in their mouths?"

Eventually Jiva is reunited with Bapu (Amar) through the determined efforts of Sandeep. After Bapu explains what happened to him, Jiva tells him that she wanted to die in the desert. In the poem titled "Life" she tells her father,
"It's not easy to die, Bapu,...
In the desert I thought I wanted death to find me. But life is an enormous force. It doesn't let go easily....
I also learned that our lives are not just our own. Everyone and everything is connected. Like a wide net of fine thread..."

Despite what has happened, their separation and the trauma of the riots, things are not right between Jiva and her father. Although her father wants to follow through on the arranged marriage, Jiva refuses, telling him she is in love with Sandeep Patel. He also confesses to her that two months before Mata hanged herself, he had bought plane tickets to Delhi but kept it a secret because he wanted her gratitude. He didn't ease her suffering when he could have, giving her something to look forward to and this fills him with remorse.

Ostlere offers a fitting conclusion to her story:  Jiva, Bapu and his friend Kiran who rescued Mata's urn from the abandoned hotel room, pour Mata's ashes into the Yamuna River. And Jiva and Sandeep, whose real name is Miraj (he learns this from his brother Akbar) briefly reunite by the Yamuna River and promise to find one another in the future.

Karma is a good effort to portray the horrific events surrounding the assassination of Indian Prime Minister Indira Ghandi through the eyes of two young people: an Indian-Canadian girl and a Hindu boy. What begins as a novel about a struggling immigrant family in Canada, and a violent historical event in India ends as a love story. The novel is very long at over 500 pages, and some readers may find the middle section of the novel slow and lose interest. Parts of the storyline feel very contrived: the use of a diary by Sandeep, Maya/Jiva's sudden decision to speak again, the meeting of Pavarti on the train which saves Sandeep and Jiva, and the finding of Jiva's father by Sandeep. Sandeep Patel's narrative does contain some sexual content that could have been omitted. Better editing would have made this story more focused on the themes of the immigrant struggle and racism which Bapu and Jiva encounter both in Canada and in India. The novel's title is a reference to the concept of "karma" that events happen to a person based on their previous actions: good actions lead to good things and bad actions to suffering or problems. 

Book Details:

Karma by Cathy Ostlere
Puffin Canada 2011
517 pp.